you know.... everyone comes across a sitaution where they are always in a heated battle with trying to tell the person that he/she likes that they like them...
if its not me... its any of my many friends who are placed in this predicament... (and yes... it happens practically all the time...) as a hopeless romantic... i tend to see just about all teh telltale signs of a massive crush that's spiraling out of control. i'm not one to point fingers cuz if anyone should be pointing fingers, i really should just look into a mirror and point at myself.
but for those that aren't out of control, but for real crushes, what should a person do? in my honest opinion, the only card you should EVER play is "tell them...." why? whether you get rejected or not... anything is better than living in the sidelines for the rest of ur life wishing things were different.
go for it.
what have you got to lose?
at least you're being honest and fair to yourself. someone once told me, if you don't have the courage to go ahead with it, then it wasn't worth it to begin with. if you truly liked someone, you'd try for it. you owe that to yourself. any excuse saying "you're too scared" or "the timing is off" is just you trying to make excuses for yourself... take it from me... the EPITOME of self-excuses... its not worth it. the only thing that will solve ur problem is to find out whether there's anything or not....
but like i said earlier... who am i to say anything.... in my life, i've probably confessed to a grand total of 6 or 7 girls that i liked them.... i dunno if that is a lot or a little to most of you (most likely a little) but u have to look at the ratio of how many i've actually told in comparison to how many i've liked....
girls i've confessed to: lets say 7....
girls i've liked: 876 (and i'm lowballing it to)
that's 0.7%.... those are pretty crappy odds if u ask me... but i'm slowly learning...
wanna know what's even more sad? of the 7.... the success rate is like.. uh.... 2... hahaha... or maybe 3....
anyhow, enough of my pathetic life statistics.... my advice to everyone out there who likes someone... TELL THEM!!!! ur just gonna hate urself more each day u don't man up and do it....
and with that... its time for bed... BOOYAH!!!
Songs of the Day:
Tamia - Can't Get Enough of You
Tamia - Too Grown for That
3 comments:
Props to you for having the courage and good luck to those that plan to do it. I agree. Just lay it out on the table.
But, I myself, am too chicken. Just thinking about it gives me anxiety! Eek!!
mm...if you got the balls..i say do it...what if in a situation where in the get go you are established as FRIENDS only..a predictment that you can't be more...but then it happens...then what do you do?! do you still tell them?! or wait in the sidelines?
just like sm, i am too chicken!! even if i did crush, i wouldnt say it if because i dont want to be moded!
mm..thats not a cute pic of me to the right...change it!! got to get them boys! LOL!!!
thanks MM!!!
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